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What to say in a wedding video message

Questions for anyone leaving a message for the couple, whether you’ll be in the room or a long way away. Everyone can answer them on the spot, and they’re grouped by who you are to the couple.

Talk to them, not about them.Say it to the camera like they’re in the room. That’s what makes it feel like a toast.
One story is plenty.Pick one moment and tell it. It says more than a list of compliments.
Keep it to a minute.Make them laugh if you like. Try to end on something warm.

From their kids

Tell them what you love about seeing them so happy
What is life at home with them like?
Tell them what you wish for their life together

From their parents

What do you hope for them in the years ahead?
Tell them how you could tell they were in love
Tell them what you thought the first time you saw them together

From their grandparents

Give them your blessing for their life together
Give them your best advice for a happy life together
What do you love about seeing them so happy?

From their brothers and sisters

Tell them what you wish for their life together
Tell them how you could tell they were in love
What’s a song that makes you think of them, and why?

From their friends

What do you wish for them in their life together?
Tell them what you thought the first time you saw them together
Tell them what you love about the two of them together
Tell them a favorite memory from when you were kids

From the people they work with

What do you wish for them in their life together?
Give them your best advice for a happy life together
What do you hope the years ahead bring them?

Toast asks these for you.

Send one link to the group chat. Everyone gets questions picked for who they are to the couple, and records right from the link. It all arrives as one film.

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